If someone has an advantage over you, the solution is to dampen it, take it away from them completely, or to catch them by surprise. [By any means necessary.] I suppose you're aiming to feel out your possibilities there by finding whoever helped them? Or is it something else?

[The revelation of genuine, unacceptable for whatever reason, desires? Yes, that does appeal.]

Honestly? You had me at 'party'. But this sounds like it's going attract a more interesting crowd than the usual dance floor set to house music.

Pass me an invitation when the time comes and I'll be there.